Marilyn Thipthorpe
We are always on the lookout for “the one”, but we rarely seem to find this mysterious stranger and have to remind ourselves to keep an open mind but there are certain things which you just can’t keep a blind eye or deaf eye to.
*Just imagine a guy taking you out on this romantic date with all the great food, the right restaurant and the worst attitude. He acts snippy with the staff and leaves a seriously underrated tip. Now you can into each others eyes and have a meaningful yet fun conversation about what could have been done differently but if this is not the road your conversation goes down just leave right then and there after a polite goodbye. This guy does not value people who do something for him and some day you might get the same treatment for doing something for him.
*Try to avoid anybody who keeps snakes in their home, you don’t want to be that up close and personal with a person who probably bought this reptile as a fluke and now keeps it out of some need to impress others into thinking he’s freaky. Just imagine all the dead rodents you’ll have lying around just because you need to feed a snake.
*If someone cannot in all their years of life hook up a TV or change a flat tire, all hope is lost. A person like this is unstable and not willing to grow in any form its best to avoid these sorts of men and women.
*If the person you intend to date always sulks or is reticent about going to any of your events hosted by friends or family then beware, this person is totally into himself/herself and does not want to be involved in any other thing. They are selfish and do not deserve you.
*Personal hygiene is a very important issue on the table. A person should be well groomed and smell nice along with having proper manner, being lazy once in a while or when you are totally comfortable with one another is ok. A first date or 2 demands some formality that will show the person is making an effort for you.
*If you begin to be treated like a personal butler, get out this situation now. You are not being valued as a person who has a stake in this relationship but rather as a personal slave who is at the other person’s beck and call. Never raise a person’s expectation too much on the first few dates, look into them and their behavioral hints before you get in too deep.